Enlightenment on one's own or joining/sharing together as one?

To u wise ones with my deepest love:

I ask myself the questions:

What use is enlightenment on one's own?
What is the point to shooting up the stars at 90 miles an hour, beatifically floating and no connection to my neighbour who is in pain?

What is samadhi when the washing up isn't done?
How do I influence society/cosmos at large when i trudge thru tons of books on spirituality and yet forget that my neighbour is alone?

What is transcendance when there is no warmth in my heart & i refuse to see people for who they really are: expression of God's love in all their imperfections?

Can I really and truly see past imperfections and touch the Divine in the passerby & offer them a smile from my heart?

Can I really & truly reach God who is within everybody (so visible, so palpable, that there is no mistaking of her/his presence!) and connect and be with them and them with me and share a cup of tea?

Are we afraid to reach out to others in case their enlightenment is better then ours?
Is that really what spirit wants us to do? Quibble over who is better when in Gods heart we'r all equally loved and cared for and its absolute urgent time to join and evolve in unity & peace?

Can anybody tell me?